Theo, thank you for being so open in your post.
I love for you that you have been able to explore yor sexuality, and that you are open to reflecting on it, being curious about it, and even being able to sit with that discomfort of wondering if you have a ”preference” or if there is some sort of bias.
Being able to think about our ”preferences” is a huge part of ensuring we are facing our own biases-be it about sex and sexuality, race and cultural beliefs, or even our political leanings.
As someone that knows you, I assure you that you are not a ”bad person”. PERIOD.
I think we should do a video recording on this-on exploring sexuality in relation to gender and personal development. Let me know if you are down for it.